Communication Guide
Effective Communication
Section titled “Effective Communication”As a District Chair, you’re the communication bridge between State leadership and Lodge Chairs. How well you communicate directly impacts how informed, supported, and engaged your lodges are.
Your Communication Role
Section titled “Your Communication Role”Information Flow
Section titled “Information Flow”National Directors ↓ State Chair ↓ District Chair (You) ↓ Lodge ChairsDownward: Pass relevant information from State/National to Lodge Chairs Upward: Report lodge activity, challenges, and successes to State Chair
What Flows Down
Section titled “What Flows Down”- Program updates and changes
- Deadlines and reminders
- Resources and materials
- Training opportunities
- Recognition and encouragement
What Flows Up
Section titled “What Flows Up”- Lodge activity summaries
- Challenges and support needs
- Success stories
- Questions and concerns
- Suggestions and feedback
Communication Rhythms
Section titled “Communication Rhythms”With Lodge Chairs
Section titled “With Lodge Chairs”| Frequency | Method | Purpose |
|---|---|---|
| Monthly | Phone/email | Check-in, offer support |
| As needed | Text/email | Quick questions, reminders |
| Quarterly | Meeting (optional) | Training, planning, connection |
| Event-based | Various | Before/after events |
With State Chair
Section titled “With State Chair”| Frequency | Method | Purpose |
|---|---|---|
| Monthly | Email summary | District status update |
| As needed | Phone/email | Escalations, questions |
| Quarterly | State call/meeting | Full team coordination |
Monthly Lodge Chair Check-In
Section titled “Monthly Lodge Chair Check-In”Making Contact
Section titled “Making Contact”Choose the best method for each Chair:
- Phone: Best for relationship building and complex conversations
- Email: Good for Chairs who prefer written communication
- Text: Quick for simple check-ins with responsive Chairs
Check-In Framework
Section titled “Check-In Framework”1. Open warmly
“Hi [Name], how are things going?”
2. Ask about activities
“What DAP activities have you done this month?” “Anything coming up?”
3. Ask about challenges
“Any challenges I can help with?” “Do you need any resources or support?”
4. Confirm CLMS
“Have you had a chance to log your activities in CLMS?”
5. Share updates
“Here’s what’s coming up…” [relevant news/deadlines]
6. Close with support
“Let me know if you need anything. I’m here to help.”
Tracking Check-Ins
Section titled “Tracking Check-Ins”Keep a simple log:
| Lodge | Chair | Contact Date | Status | Follow-up Needed |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| #100 | Jane | 1/10 | Active, planning event | None |
| #101 | Bob | 1/8 | Struggling, needs materials | Send resources |
| #102 | - | 1/5 | No Chair | Escalate to State |
Monthly State Chair Update
Section titled “Monthly State Chair Update”What to Include
Section titled “What to Include”Quick Format:
District [X] Update - [Month/Year]
ACTIVE LODGES:• Lodge #100: [brief activity summary]• Lodge #101: [brief activity summary]
NEEDS ATTENTION:• Lodge #102: [issue and what you're doing about it]
UPCOMING:• [any events or activities planned]
SUPPORT NEEDED:• [specific requests for State Chair help]Sample Update
Section titled “Sample Update”District 5 Update - January 2026
ACTIVE LODGES:• Lodge #501: Planning health fair booth 1/20, school presentation 2/5• Lodge #502: Completed Red Ribbon follow-up, strong CLMS reporting• Lodge #504: New Chair settling in, first event scheduled 2/1
NEEDS ATTENTION:• Lodge #503: Chair unresponsive, attempted contact 3x. May need your help.
UPCOMING:• Lodge #501 health fair 1/20 - I'll attend• District meeting tentatively 2/15
SUPPORT NEEDED:• Materials for Lodge #504 (new Chair, no inventory)• Help reaching Lodge #503 Chair
Questions? Let me know.Passing Information Down
Section titled “Passing Information Down”When State Chair Sends Updates
Section titled “When State Chair Sends Updates”- Read and understand the information
- Assess relevance for your lodges
- Simplify if needed - don’t just forward
- Add context specific to your district
- Send promptly - don’t sit on time-sensitive info
Sample Message to Lodge Chairs
Section titled “Sample Message to Lodge Chairs”Instead of forwarding the State Chair’s email:
Hi Team,
Quick update from State:
Contest Deadline Reminder: April 15 is coming up. If you have entries, get them to me by April 1 so I can compile for the state.
New Materials Available: State has new brochures on vaping. Let me know if you want some.
Upcoming: State convention is June 15-16. Details coming soon.
Questions? Just reply or call me.
[Your name]
What to Always Forward
Section titled “What to Always Forward”- Deadline reminders
- Policy changes
- New resources or materials
- Training opportunities
- Recognition announcements
Communication Templates
Section titled “Communication Templates”Monthly Reminder Email
Section titled “Monthly Reminder Email”Subject: DAP Check-In - [Month]
Hi [Name],
Quick monthly check-in!
📋 REMINDER• [Any current deadline or priority]
❓ QUESTIONS FOR YOU• What activities have you done or planned?• Do you need any materials or support?• Have you logged recent activities in CLMS?
📞 I'M HERE TO HELPReply to this email or call me at [number] if you need anything.
Thanks for all you do![Your name]Event Follow-Up
Section titled “Event Follow-Up”Subject: Great job at [Event]!
Hi [Name],
Just wanted to say great job at [event]! [Specific positive observation].
A few follow-up items:• Don't forget to log the event in CLMS• [Any other follow-up needed]
Thanks for representing DAP so well![Your name]Deadline Reminder
Section titled “Deadline Reminder”Subject: Reminder: [Deadline] Coming Up
Hi Team,
Friendly reminder that [deadline/event] is [date].
What you need to do:• [Specific action item]• [Specific action item]
Questions? Let me know!
[Your name]No Response Follow-Up
Section titled “No Response Follow-Up”Subject: Checking In - [Lodge]
Hi [Name],
I tried to reach you a couple times and wanted to make sure everything is okay.
No pressure - I just want to see if there's anything I can help with for DAP.
Give me a call when you get a chance, or just reply to this email.
[Your name][Phone number]Difficult Conversations
Section titled “Difficult Conversations”When a Lodge Chair Isn’t Performing
Section titled “When a Lodge Chair Isn’t Performing”Approach with curiosity:
“I’ve noticed we haven’t connected much lately. How are things going with DAP? Is everything okay?”
Listen first - understand the real situation
Offer help:
“What would make this easier for you?” “Would it help if we…”
If needed, set expectations:
“To keep the program going, we need [specific actions]. Can you commit to that?”
When You Have Bad News
Section titled “When You Have Bad News”Be direct but kind:
“I need to share something that’s disappointing…”
Explain the context if it helps
Focus on next steps:
“Here’s what we can do…”
When There’s Conflict
Section titled “When There’s Conflict”Stay neutral - listen to all sides
Focus on the work:
“Let’s focus on what’s best for the program…”
Involve State Chair if you can’t resolve it
Communication Best Practices
Section titled “Communication Best Practices”- ✅ Be responsive - reply within 24-48 hours
- ✅ Be consistent - regular contact builds trust
- ✅ Be positive - lead with appreciation
- ✅ Be specific - vague requests get vague responses
- ✅ Be honest - even when news isn’t good
- ✅ Follow up - close loops on open items
Don’ts
Section titled “Don’ts”- ❌ Go silent - even bad news is better than no news
- ❌ Over-communicate - respect their time
- ❌ Just forward emails - add value
- ❌ Assume they got it - confirm important messages
- ❌ Be negative - keep frustrations professional
- ❌ Skip the thank-you - recognition matters
Tools and Methods
Section titled “Tools and Methods”Choosing the Right Channel
Section titled “Choosing the Right Channel”| Situation | Best Channel |
|---|---|
| Routine update | |
| Quick question | Text |
| Sensitive topic | Phone call |
| Complex discussion | Phone or in-person |
| Need documentation | |
| Urgent matter | Phone, then follow up in writing |
Staying Organized
Section titled “Staying Organized”- Keep contact info easily accessible
- Track when you last contacted each lodge
- Note follow-up items after conversations
- Set reminders for regular check-ins
Consistency Wins
You don’t need to be a communication expert. What matters most is being consistent, responsive, and supportive. Regular brief contact is better than sporadic lengthy messages.