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Communication Guide

As a District Chair, you’re the communication bridge between State leadership and Lodge Chairs. How well you communicate directly impacts how informed, supported, and engaged your lodges are.


National Directors
State Chair
District Chair (You)
Lodge Chairs

Downward: Pass relevant information from State/National to Lodge Chairs Upward: Report lodge activity, challenges, and successes to State Chair

  • Program updates and changes
  • Deadlines and reminders
  • Resources and materials
  • Training opportunities
  • Recognition and encouragement
  • Lodge activity summaries
  • Challenges and support needs
  • Success stories
  • Questions and concerns
  • Suggestions and feedback

FrequencyMethodPurpose
MonthlyPhone/emailCheck-in, offer support
As neededText/emailQuick questions, reminders
QuarterlyMeeting (optional)Training, planning, connection
Event-basedVariousBefore/after events
FrequencyMethodPurpose
MonthlyEmail summaryDistrict status update
As neededPhone/emailEscalations, questions
QuarterlyState call/meetingFull team coordination

Choose the best method for each Chair:

  • Phone: Best for relationship building and complex conversations
  • Email: Good for Chairs who prefer written communication
  • Text: Quick for simple check-ins with responsive Chairs

1. Open warmly

“Hi [Name], how are things going?”

2. Ask about activities

“What DAP activities have you done this month?” “Anything coming up?”

3. Ask about challenges

“Any challenges I can help with?” “Do you need any resources or support?”

4. Confirm CLMS

“Have you had a chance to log your activities in CLMS?”

5. Share updates

“Here’s what’s coming up…” [relevant news/deadlines]

6. Close with support

“Let me know if you need anything. I’m here to help.”

Keep a simple log:

LodgeChairContact DateStatusFollow-up Needed
#100Jane1/10Active, planning eventNone
#101Bob1/8Struggling, needs materialsSend resources
#102-1/5No ChairEscalate to State

Quick Format:

District [X] Update - [Month/Year]
ACTIVE LODGES:
• Lodge #100: [brief activity summary]
• Lodge #101: [brief activity summary]
NEEDS ATTENTION:
• Lodge #102: [issue and what you're doing about it]
UPCOMING:
• [any events or activities planned]
SUPPORT NEEDED:
• [specific requests for State Chair help]
District 5 Update - January 2026
ACTIVE LODGES:
• Lodge #501: Planning health fair booth 1/20, school presentation 2/5
• Lodge #502: Completed Red Ribbon follow-up, strong CLMS reporting
• Lodge #504: New Chair settling in, first event scheduled 2/1
NEEDS ATTENTION:
• Lodge #503: Chair unresponsive, attempted contact 3x. May need your help.
UPCOMING:
• Lodge #501 health fair 1/20 - I'll attend
• District meeting tentatively 2/15
SUPPORT NEEDED:
• Materials for Lodge #504 (new Chair, no inventory)
• Help reaching Lodge #503 Chair
Questions? Let me know.

  1. Read and understand the information
  2. Assess relevance for your lodges
  3. Simplify if needed - don’t just forward
  4. Add context specific to your district
  5. Send promptly - don’t sit on time-sensitive info

Instead of forwarding the State Chair’s email:

Hi Team,

Quick update from State:

Contest Deadline Reminder: April 15 is coming up. If you have entries, get them to me by April 1 so I can compile for the state.

New Materials Available: State has new brochures on vaping. Let me know if you want some.

Upcoming: State convention is June 15-16. Details coming soon.

Questions? Just reply or call me.

[Your name]

  • Deadline reminders
  • Policy changes
  • New resources or materials
  • Training opportunities
  • Recognition announcements

Subject: DAP Check-In - [Month]
Hi [Name],
Quick monthly check-in!
📋 REMINDER
• [Any current deadline or priority]
❓ QUESTIONS FOR YOU
• What activities have you done or planned?
• Do you need any materials or support?
• Have you logged recent activities in CLMS?
📞 I'M HERE TO HELP
Reply to this email or call me at [number] if you need anything.
Thanks for all you do!
[Your name]
Subject: Great job at [Event]!
Hi [Name],
Just wanted to say great job at [event]! [Specific positive observation].
A few follow-up items:
• Don't forget to log the event in CLMS
• [Any other follow-up needed]
Thanks for representing DAP so well!
[Your name]
Subject: Reminder: [Deadline] Coming Up
Hi Team,
Friendly reminder that [deadline/event] is [date].
What you need to do:
• [Specific action item]
• [Specific action item]
Questions? Let me know!
[Your name]
Subject: Checking In - [Lodge]
Hi [Name],
I tried to reach you a couple times and wanted to make sure everything is okay.
No pressure - I just want to see if there's anything I can help with for DAP.
Give me a call when you get a chance, or just reply to this email.
[Your name]
[Phone number]

Approach with curiosity:

“I’ve noticed we haven’t connected much lately. How are things going with DAP? Is everything okay?”

Listen first - understand the real situation

Offer help:

“What would make this easier for you?” “Would it help if we…”

If needed, set expectations:

“To keep the program going, we need [specific actions]. Can you commit to that?”

Be direct but kind:

“I need to share something that’s disappointing…”

Explain the context if it helps

Focus on next steps:

“Here’s what we can do…”

Stay neutral - listen to all sides

Focus on the work:

“Let’s focus on what’s best for the program…”

Involve State Chair if you can’t resolve it


  • ✅ Be responsive - reply within 24-48 hours
  • ✅ Be consistent - regular contact builds trust
  • ✅ Be positive - lead with appreciation
  • ✅ Be specific - vague requests get vague responses
  • ✅ Be honest - even when news isn’t good
  • ✅ Follow up - close loops on open items
  • ❌ Go silent - even bad news is better than no news
  • ❌ Over-communicate - respect their time
  • ❌ Just forward emails - add value
  • ❌ Assume they got it - confirm important messages
  • ❌ Be negative - keep frustrations professional
  • ❌ Skip the thank-you - recognition matters

SituationBest Channel
Routine updateEmail
Quick questionText
Sensitive topicPhone call
Complex discussionPhone or in-person
Need documentationEmail
Urgent matterPhone, then follow up in writing
  • Keep contact info easily accessible
  • Track when you last contacted each lodge
  • Note follow-up items after conversations
  • Set reminders for regular check-ins

Consistency Wins

You don’t need to be a communication expert. What matters most is being consistent, responsive, and supportive. Regular brief contact is better than sporadic lengthy messages.