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Communication Guide

As a District Chair, you’re the communication bridge between State leadership and Lodge Chairs. How well you communicate directly impacts how informed, supported, and engaged your lodges are.


National Directors
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State Chair
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District Chair (You)
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Lodge Chairs

Downward: Pass relevant information from State/National to Lodge Chairs Upward: Report lodge activity, challenges, and successes to State Chair

  • Program updates and changes
  • Deadlines and reminders
  • Resources and materials
  • Training opportunities
  • Recognition and encouragement
  • Lodge activity summaries
  • Challenges and support needs
  • Success stories
  • Questions and concerns
  • Suggestions and feedback

FrequencyMethodPurpose
MonthlyPhone/emailCheck-in, offer support
As neededText/emailQuick questions, reminders
QuarterlyMeeting (optional)Training, planning, connection
Event-basedVariousBefore/after events
FrequencyMethodPurpose
MonthlyEmail summaryDistrict status update
As neededPhone/emailEscalations, questions
QuarterlyState call/meetingFull team coordination

Choose the best method for each Chair:

  • Phone: Best for relationship building and complex conversations
  • Email: Good for Chairs who prefer written communication
  • Text: Quick for simple check-ins with responsive Chairs

1. Open warmly

“Hi [Name], how are things going?”

2. Ask about activities

“What DAP activities have you done this month?” “Anything coming up?”

3. Ask about challenges

“Any challenges I can help with?” “Do you need any resources or support?”

4. Confirm CLMS

“Have you had a chance to log your activities in CLMS?”

5. Share updates

“Here’s what’s coming up…” [relevant news/deadlines]

6. Close with support

“Let me know if you need anything. I’m here to help.”

Keep a simple log:

LodgeChairContact DateStatusFollow-up Needed
#100Jane1/10Active, planning eventNone
#101Bob1/8Struggling, needs materialsSend resources
#102-1/5No ChairEscalate to State

Quick Format:

District [X] Update - [Month/Year]
ACTIVE LODGES:
• Lodge #100: [brief activity summary]
• Lodge #101: [brief activity summary]
NEEDS ATTENTION:
• Lodge #102: [issue and what you're doing about it]
UPCOMING:
• [any events or activities planned]
SUPPORT NEEDED:
• [specific requests for State Chair help]
District 5 Update - January 2026
ACTIVE LODGES:
• Lodge #501: Planning health fair booth 1/20, school presentation 2/5
• Lodge #502: Completed Red Ribbon follow-up, strong CLMS reporting
• Lodge #504: New Chair settling in, first event scheduled 2/1
NEEDS ATTENTION:
• Lodge #503: Chair unresponsive, attempted contact 3x. May need your help.
UPCOMING:
• Lodge #501 health fair 1/20 - I'll attend
• District meeting tentatively 2/15
SUPPORT NEEDED:
• Materials for Lodge #504 (new Chair, no inventory)
• Help reaching Lodge #503 Chair
Questions? Let me know.

  1. Read and understand the information
  2. Assess relevance for your lodges
  3. Simplify if needed - don’t just forward
  4. Add context specific to your district
  5. Send promptly - don’t sit on time-sensitive info

Instead of forwarding the State Chair’s email:

Hi Team,

Quick update from State:

Contest Deadline Reminder: The national deadline is April 1. If you have entries, get them to me by March 15 so I can compile for the state.

New Materials Available: State has new brochures on vaping. Let me know if you want some.

Upcoming: State convention is June 15-16. Details coming soon.

Questions? Just reply or call me.

[Your name]

  • Deadline reminders
  • Policy changes
  • New resources or materials
  • Training opportunities
  • Recognition announcements

Subject: DAP Check-In - [Month]
Hi [Name],
Quick monthly check-in!
📋 REMINDER
• [Any current deadline or priority]
❓ QUESTIONS FOR YOU
• What activities have you done or planned?
• Do you need any materials or support?
• Have you logged recent activities in CLMS?
📞 I'M HERE TO HELP
Reply to this email or call me at [number] if you need anything.
Thanks for all you do!
[Your name]
Subject: Great job at [Event]!
Hi [Name],
Just wanted to say great job at [event]! [Specific positive observation].
A few follow-up items:
• Don't forget to log the event in CLMS
• [Any other follow-up needed]
Thanks for representing DAP so well!
[Your name]
Subject: Reminder: [Deadline] Coming Up
Hi Team,
Friendly reminder that [deadline/event] is [date].
What you need to do:
• [Specific action item]
• [Specific action item]
Questions? Let me know!
[Your name]
Subject: Checking In - [Lodge]
Hi [Name],
I tried to reach you a couple times and wanted to make sure everything is okay.
No pressure - I just want to see if there's anything I can help with for DAP.
Give me a call when you get a chance, or just reply to this email.
[Your name]
[Phone number]

Approach with curiosity:

“I’ve noticed we haven’t connected much lately. How are things going with DAP? Is everything okay?”

Listen first - understand the real situation

Offer help:

“What would make this easier for you?” “Would it help if we…”

If needed, set expectations:

“To keep the program going, we need [specific actions]. Can you commit to that?”

Be direct but kind:

“I need to share something that’s disappointing…”

Explain the context if it helps

Focus on next steps:

“Here’s what we can do…”

Stay neutral - listen to all sides

Focus on the work:

“Let’s focus on what’s best for the program…”

Involve State Chair if you can’t resolve it


  • ✅ Be responsive - reply within 24-48 hours
  • ✅ Be consistent - regular contact builds trust
  • ✅ Be positive - lead with appreciation
  • ✅ Be specific - vague requests get vague responses
  • ✅ Be honest - even when news isn’t good
  • ✅ Follow up - close loops on open items
  • ❌ Go silent - even bad news is better than no news
  • ❌ Over-communicate - respect their time
  • ❌ Just forward emails - add value
  • ❌ Assume they got it - confirm important messages
  • ❌ Be negative - keep frustrations professional
  • ❌ Skip the thank-you - recognition matters

SituationBest Channel
Routine updateEmail
Quick questionText
Sensitive topicPhone call
Complex discussionPhone or in-person
Need documentationEmail
Urgent matterPhone, then follow up in writing
  • Keep contact info easily accessible
  • Track when you last contacted each lodge
  • Note follow-up items after conversations
  • Set reminders for regular check-ins

Consistency Wins

You don’t need to be a communication expert. What matters most is being consistent, responsive, and supportive. Regular brief contact is better than sporadic lengthy messages.