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Managing Your Team

Your success as State Chair depends largely on your District and Lodge Chairs. This guide covers how to build, support, and lead an effective team across your state.


State Chair (You)
├── District Chair (Region 1)
│ ├── Lodge Chair - Lodge #100
│ ├── Lodge Chair - Lodge #101
│ └── Lodge Chair - Lodge #102
├── District Chair (Region 2)
│ ├── Lodge Chair - Lodge #200
│ └── Lodge Chair - Lodge #201
└── (Additional Districts...)
RolePrimary FocusReports ToSupports
State ChairState-wide strategy, national coordinationNational DirectorsDistrict Chairs
District ChairRegional coordination, Lodge Chair supportState ChairLodge Chairs
Lodge ChairLocal execution, community outreachDistrict ChairVolunteers

Ideal Characteristics:

  • Passionate about youth and community
  • Reliable and follows through on commitments
  • Good communicator
  • Organized and can manage their time
  • Willing to learn
  • Active in their lodge

Where to Look:

  • Current lodge leaders who show initiative
  • Members involved in other lodge programs
  • Recommendations from District or Lodge officers
  • Members who’ve volunteered at DAP events
  • Newer members looking for ways to contribute

Opening:

“I’ve noticed your involvement at [Lodge/District] and wanted to talk to you about an opportunity. The Drug Awareness Program is looking for someone like you to serve as [Role]. Would you have a few minutes to hear about it?”

What to Cover:

  1. What DAP does and why it matters
  2. What the role involves (be honest about time commitment)
  3. What support they’ll receive
  4. Why you think they’d be good at it
  5. Answer their questions

Addressing Concerns:

ConcernResponse
”I don’t know anything about drugs""You’ll receive training and materials. You don’t need to be an expert - you need to care about kids."
"I don’t have much time""The role is flexible. Even a few hours a month makes a difference. Start small and build from there."
"I’ve never done anything like this""Neither had I when I started. I’ll be here to support you every step of the way."
"What if I’m not good at it?""We’ll work together. There’s no perfect way to do this - just showing up matters.”

First Contact (Within 1 Week of Appointment)

Section titled “First Contact (Within 1 Week of Appointment)”
  • Welcome call/email - congratulate and express confidence
  • Share the training website and key resources
  • Explain immediate next steps
  • Schedule a follow-up call in 2 weeks

For New District Chairs:

  • Review the District Chairs Guide
  • Provide list of Lodge Chairs in their district
  • Explain reporting expectations (CLMS, communications)
  • Introduce them to their Lodge Chairs
  • Share state calendar and upcoming events
  • Set up regular check-in schedule

For New Lodge Chairs:

  • Share the Getting Started Checklist
  • Connect them with their District Chair
  • Ensure they have CLMS access
  • Explain how to order materials
  • Set expectations for first 90 days
TimeframeCheck-in Focus
Week 2Questions about getting started, resource access
Week 4Progress on initial goals, any roadblocks
Week 8First activities, what’s working/not working
Week 1290-day review, set goals for next quarter

FrequencyWhatPurpose
MonthlyEmail update to all ChairsShare news, reminders, recognition
MonthlyIndividual check-in with District ChairsSupport, gather intel, problem-solve
QuarterlyTeam call/meetingTraining, planning, connection
As neededIndividual outreachSupport specific situations
Subject: [Month] DAP Update - [State]
Hi Team,
Here's your monthly DAP update:
📅 UPCOMING
• [Key dates and deadlines]
• [Events or activities this month]
✅ REMINDERS
• [Action items or things to remember]
🌟 RECOGNITION
• [Highlight a success or thank a volunteer]
📚 RESOURCES
• [Any new materials or training]
Questions? Reach out anytime.
[Your Name]

Monthly/Quarterly Call Agenda:

  1. Welcome and quick wins (5 min)
  2. Updates from State Chair (10 min)
  3. District/Lodge reports - round robin (15-20 min)
  4. Training topic or discussion (10-15 min)
  5. Q&A and open discussion (10 min)
  6. Next steps and close (5 min)

Keep Calls Valuable

If a meeting could be an email, send an email. When you do meet, make it worth their time with information they can’t get elsewhere.


Be Available:

  • Respond to questions promptly
  • Let them know the best way to reach you
  • Be approachable - no question is too small

Provide Resources:

  • Share materials proactively
  • Forward relevant information from National
  • Connect Chairs with helpful resources

Remove Obstacles:

  • Help solve problems they can’t solve alone
  • Advocate for resources they need
  • Run interference with difficult situations

Signs of Struggling:

  • Missed deadlines or commitments
  • No activity logged in CLMS
  • Not responding to communications
  • Expressing frustration or overwhelm

How to Help:

  1. Reach out with curiosity, not judgment

    “I noticed things have been quiet. How are things going? Is there anything I can help with?”

  2. Listen first - Understand the real issue before offering solutions

  3. Offer specific help

    “Would it help if I contacted that school for you?” “Can I connect you with [Name] who’s dealt with something similar?”

  4. Adjust expectations if needed - Sometimes life circumstances require scaling back

  5. Know when to have a harder conversation - If someone consistently can’t fulfill the role, it’s better for everyone to find a replacement

Progressive Approach:

StepAction
1. ConversationShare observations, ask what’s happening, offer support
2. Clear expectationsSpecific goals and timeline, documented support
3. Follow-upCheck progress, acknowledge improvement or note concerns
4. DecisionContinue, additional support, or transition out of role

Having the Hard Conversation:

“I appreciate your willingness to serve, and I know you care about DAP. I’ve noticed [specific observation]. Can we talk about what’s happening and figure out a path forward?”


MotivatorHow to Provide
PurposeConnect their work to impact on youth
AutonomyLet them own their area, don’t micromanage
MasteryProvide training and growth opportunities
ConnectionBuild team relationships, share stories
RecognitionAcknowledge contributions publicly and privately

Informal:

  • Personal thank-you calls or notes
  • Mention in team communications
  • Share successes with National Directors
  • Social media shout-outs

Formal:

  • Certificate of appreciation
  • Recognition at state convention
  • Nomination for state/national awards
  • Letter to their lodge leadership

Team Recognition:

  • Celebrate milestone achievements
  • Share success stories across the state
  • Create friendly competition between districts
  • Host appreciation events

Dear [Name],

I wanted to take a moment to thank you for your outstanding work as [Role] for [Lodge/District].

Your [specific accomplishment - e.g., “work with Jefferson Elementary resulted in 200+ students learning about drug prevention”] is exactly what DAP is about.

Your dedication makes a real difference in young people’s lives. Thank you for being part of this team.

With appreciation, [Your Name]


  • Share stories - Success stories build momentum and connection
  • Celebrate together - Acknowledge team wins, not just individual ones
  • Encourage peer support - Connect Chairs who can help each other
  • Be human - Share appropriate personal updates, acknowledge life events
  • Pair new Chairs with experienced mentors
  • Have Chairs share what’s working at team meetings
  • Create informal channels for questions (group text, email thread)
  • Recognize Chairs who help other Chairs

Between Chairs:

  • Listen to both sides separately first
  • Focus on the work, not personalities
  • Find common ground around shared mission
  • Mediate if needed, but encourage direct resolution

With You:

  • Stay calm and professional
  • Seek to understand their perspective
  • Focus on solutions, not blame
  • Know when to involve National Directors

  • Identify high-potential Chairs early
  • Give stretch assignments to develop skills
  • Involve promising volunteers in state-level activities
  • Cross-train to build redundancy

As you approach the end of your term:

  • Document processes and contacts
  • Identify and mentor potential successors
  • Introduce successor to key relationships
  • Create transition materials
  • Document all recurring activities and deadlines
  • List key contacts (National, vendors, school partners)
  • Summarize what’s working and what needs attention
  • Transfer files and materials
  • Introduce successor to District Chairs
  • Be available for questions during transition

Your Legacy

The best State Chairs leave behind not just a successful program, but a team of capable leaders and a successor ready to continue the work.